So I caught my husband in an EA. Don't know if it ever became a PA. We went to counseling and had probably one of the only truly honest discussions about our marriage afterwards. He told me that he loves me but has no romantic feelings for me. He still wants to stay married for the children. I responded by saying that a true marriage must involve romantic feelings and I didn't want to waste years in a marriage that didn't. He basically said he would fake it then, if that's what would it would take. I was upfront and reiterated that it was unfair to trap both of us in a marriage of falsehood. He said he understood and needed time to think things over. Ever since, he has been the ideal husband and father - a complete 180 from how he was before the EA. But this new affectionate, caring, doting husband and father side is only serving to confuse me. How do I know if he is faking it or sincere?