You want to have the other girls as a back-up plan. This enough should tell you that they are not the one for you.Update: Holy crap...she's actually into me. She's talking about visiting me here and I was already planning on visiting her there (she lives in the town I moved from). so... this might actually happen (older woman). Now I'm kind of excited. Now what the heck do I do with this new girl I met who I set a date with this saturday? I should probably keep it cause its not like the relationship with the older woman is absolutely certain, but she is definitely interested.
If dating them progresses in any relationship (with any of them)..think about it.... would you be satisfied by marrying a back-up plan?
It wouldn't make you happy in the long run.