Just removed her snapchat and instagram. I still have her on FB, but I unfollowed.I'm sorry you struggled this weekend, but checking in on her like that is a BIG NO-NO! Please dont do that again, work on detaching. You will never make any progress like this.
She seems to be on Snapchat the most now, because the messages dissappear I'm sure. I'm guessing she developed that habit toward the end of our relationship.