My whole relationship with my husband has been him initiating sex. I always feel like he is too tired or just doesn't want to be with me. I know this stems from my own low self esteem but I have no idea how to go about fixing this. Here lately though our sex life has been amazing, sex has been great...granted I wish we explored other areas but I have to figure out how to get over my own issues. Has anyone else had this problem? How did you fix it?