I simply can’t understand how WS come to think the way they do and take zero responsibility for their choices.She knows 100% if she tells his wife, she'll never EVER hear from him again. She values the OM much more than her husband or her children. She'd rather keep cheating on them, rather than hurt her OM.
I gave my ex-wife the choice, tell his wife or get divorce papers today. She elected to get divorce papers today. (She didn't know I had a bunch of photos, emails, etc all stored for her OM Wife to receive. She begged me not to give OBS because it would destroy him and his family. What about MY FAMILY she destroyed with him. Needless to say, I talked to OBS and gave her everything that I had, which OBS then filed for divorce. My EX-W Blamed me for destroying OM marriage, blamed me for destroying her relationship with OM (He dropped her immediately when his wife knew) and how childish I was for exposing everything to everyone. By the way, the OM's Wife thanked me for telling her. She really appreciated what I had done and said if she discovered the affair, she would have told me.
I seriously doubt the original poster will tell the OBS or her Husband. Give it time, she'll be caught and everyone will know. I'm also willing to bet there's a chance that the children could be the OM's.
These people believe it’s ok to crap on the person they took vows to and their own kids just so they can have the tingles. I really can’t think of anything more pathetic.