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Long story short (see my intro post for the full story) my partner of 13 years left me 2 weeks ago. I was devastated. I moved out of our apartment last week and we haven't been in contact last week at all (he texted me a few times which I ignored). I wasn't sure I wanted him back but I was still sad. I've been really busy, doing the 180 too. Today he said he needed to talk to me so we went out for supper.
He told me he has a job interview across the country and he might move there.
I am now in tears. He said it so calmly and matter of fact. My heart is broken who I shared so much history with I might never see again. I still don't know what I want and whether I want him back but the fact that there is 0% probability that we will reconcile hit me so hard. I feel like I have been stabbed. It hurts so much. I can't stop crying. I tried calling a couple of friends but no one answered. I can't believe he is so insensitive about it. I didn't cry in front of him but he could tell something was wrong. As soon as I got into the car I was hysterical, good thing the roads are dead at this time on a Sunday night.
Words of wisdom and calming affirmations gratefully received!!
He told me he has a job interview across the country and he might move there.
I am now in tears. He said it so calmly and matter of fact. My heart is broken who I shared so much history with I might never see again. I still don't know what I want and whether I want him back but the fact that there is 0% probability that we will reconcile hit me so hard. I feel like I have been stabbed. It hurts so much. I can't stop crying. I tried calling a couple of friends but no one answered. I can't believe he is so insensitive about it. I didn't cry in front of him but he could tell something was wrong. As soon as I got into the car I was hysterical, good thing the roads are dead at this time on a Sunday night.
Words of wisdom and calming affirmations gratefully received!!