Calm down sweat heart !
If he moves to the other side of the country , that will be the best 180 you can even get as a Christmas present .
That way you two will became stronger and in 3 months you'll know if R is in the pic or not !
If it comes to R you two will reunite just like this !
Stay strong and AGREE with him !
Don't cry in front of him no matter what !
BTW

Here ST story - http://talkaboutmarriage.com/going-...ion/61078-sudden-separation-what-do-i-do.html
If he moves to the other side of the country , that will be the best 180 you can even get as a Christmas present .
That way you two will became stronger and in 3 months you'll know if R is in the pic or not !
If it comes to R you two will reunite just like this !
Stay strong and AGREE with him !
Don't cry in front of him no matter what !
BTW
I know your story , but is a good habit to post a link to it
Here ST story - http://talkaboutmarriage.com/going-...ion/61078-sudden-separation-what-do-i-do.html