Also how the men feel. Many married men (and some single)just don't want some woman coming onto them. I know that my husband would feel really awkward if a woman flirted with him, and would struggle with how to tell her to go away and leave him alone without being completely rude. Neither of us would ever flirt with someone else, its very disrespectful. I love and respect my husband far too much to treat him like that, and besides that He is the only man I want to flirt with and get attention from.First, using your real names might not be the best idea.
Second, do you ever consider how other women may feel about you flirting it up with their husbands?
Or are you one of those who thinks they ought to be able to hack it it and "it's not my fault their husbands like my rack"
You are a seeker of attention and male validation. This says that you have insecurities about yourself and your body. Not sure how old you are, but how will you cope when you are older and more wrinkly and don't look the same as now? When you don't get that attention anymore? When you no longer win bikini competitions? I think you will struggle.
As for me I couldn't are less about other men, my eyes are for him alone.