I think that is fantastic. However your wife does her flirting, it clearly is not making you feel threatened like she is liable to cheat given the chance. It sounds like she's probably an open, friendly, warm, social person. And not doing anything that would make you feel insecure about her dedication to you.First of all, I like to state I love my wife and her and I are happily married.
My wife, (Kelly), and I meet in college and I was drawn to her outgoing vibrant flirting personality and her fantastic body, blonde hair, and cute face.
My male friends kept forewarning me, Kelly is not the type girl I should date and heaven forbid marry due to her being too much of a flirt, having dated too many guys, and showing off her body too much.
Kelly and I married for who we each are, not to try to make changes in each other.
Of my male college friends who were wrong in telling me not to marry Kelly, are either divorced or unhappily married, whereas Kelly and I are very much in love and happily married.
To this day Kelly is very much of a flirt with men and that is just an extension of who she is as a person, vibrant and fun loving, all of which I fully accept.
Both Kelly and I, keep in shape with her being in fantastic shape. My wife's hobby and passion is to enter one or two bikini contest a year to show off her dedication to working out, nutrition, and fantastic physical attributes.
Are my wife's bikinis skimpy and revealing? Yes, very much so, from thongs that place her rear on public display to the tops that barely cover her boobs. But the bottom line her and I are very happy together and have left my negative college buddies to wallow in their disappointing marriages or state of divorce.
The fitness center my wife and I are members have a large poster on display of my wife in a bikini from her most recent contest she had won. Once again, the bikini reveals just about all of my wife's physical attributes and beauty......Yes but it also shows her hard work in training and nutrition and motivational for members of the club.
So after years of marriage, I love my flirty and exhibitionist wife and would not change on thing about her.
I would like to hear insights and feedback from other married couples with a wife thats tends to flirt and if it is a positive or negative.
Thanks from Wesley and Kelly
I would be very interested to hear some examples of her flirting. What might she say or do that you consider flirting?
As for her good looks and great body - it sounds like she takes very good care of herself and likes showing off the results of her hard work. As long as you are feeling proud like "Yeah, that's my woman!" and not like she's trying to get attention from men because she's not fulfilled in her marriage, I think it's great. It sounds like her staying in good shape is something she works at for both of you.