I'm currently deployed to Afghanistan. I've been married for 17yrs...just the last few yrs have been rocky due to finances and seperations. She just announced that she wants a divorce. She said that she loves me...but is no longer "in love"with me, she isn't having an affair, but she wants to go...We have two children. I adore and worship her. I've supported her through graduate school & various business ventures. I've made mistakes ...been critical and said things that I regret when we argued. I want to attend couples counceling- but she says no. I'll be home soon...Completely crushed. Can't imagine life without her. How do I move forward? I can't eat,sleep, concentrate...just want to curl up in a ball. My faith is destroyed & it seems that all of her vows and promises were lies. I can't help thinking that if she stayed with me...the storm would break & things would improve. What do I do? I want her back so badly. How do I convice her to reconcile?