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My husband and I started dating when we were 17, we got married two years later and were married for two years, I am now 21 and my husband and I separated only two weeks ago. My husband would go out drinking almost every weekend, he wouldn't get home usually till about 6am, he would come home so pissed sometimes that he would piss the bed. He cheated on me two months after getting married which I forgave him for because I believed he had changed and wouldn't do it again which I don't think he did but then again I wouldn't know for sure. I caught him watching porn about 6months ago, he promised he would stop and then 4months later I found more on the computer. Meanwhile I have been 100% faithful through the entire relationship, I have never lied to him, I do all the work around the house and cook dinner every night, I've been the best wife I could possibly be! So two weeks ago I just got to the stage where I couldn't take any more so I ended the relationship and moved back to my parents house and brought a ticket to another country to live ( I leave in a month) I didn't want to tell my husband that I was leaving because I thought he would make it harder for me to go but yesterday I hacked into his facebook account to be nosey and found that he had been messaging 6 different girls asking them to go out for a drink with him, I was so mad because we had only split two weeks earlier that I told him I was leaving but now I'm really struggling knowing that he is already interested in other people, I thought he would be struggling with the breakup but it looks like he's having a great time and it makes me really sad to realise that I really didn't mean anything to him for him to not worry that I'm leaving and more interested in the next girl how do I get these messages out if my head? Help!!