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I have an 11 year old step son who is a very sweet child. I have been married to his dad for 4 years. His ex wife has not like me from the beginning. She has made it very well known that he at the time was 8 was to not call me mom, etc. My daughter who is older now had a step mom that I loved when she would spend quality time with her. I was never jealous and was thankful for someone being good to her.
When he is with us the mom calls and texts constantly. My husband finally put a stop to it somewhat. Now that my step son has his own cell phone he is always texting and calling her. A couple of nights ago it was 10:00pm and he is on the phone with her just chatting. I feel that I dont have a chance. To me shouldnt she encourage him that she will talk with him when he comes home to her so that we can have our time with him? Or am I wrong? I dont mind maybe once over a 3 day weekend or if necessary but not this many times. Plus I feel I get forgotton alot of the times. Mothers Day is a forgotton day for me with him. I know Im not his mother but I sure do take good care of him.
When he is with us the mom calls and texts constantly. My husband finally put a stop to it somewhat. Now that my step son has his own cell phone he is always texting and calling her. A couple of nights ago it was 10:00pm and he is on the phone with her just chatting. I feel that I dont have a chance. To me shouldnt she encourage him that she will talk with him when he comes home to her so that we can have our time with him? Or am I wrong? I dont mind maybe once over a 3 day weekend or if necessary but not this many times. Plus I feel I get forgotton alot of the times. Mothers Day is a forgotton day for me with him. I know Im not his mother but I sure do take good care of him.