I had a milestone birthday recently and my family (offspring) planned an pulled off the most wonderful elaborate surprise party. It was awesome. My husband did absolutely nothing, not even a birthday card (we always exchange gifts) and he totally ignored me on Mothers Day...not so much as a card. I am so crushed and my feelings are so hurt. I did tell him how I feel and all he could do was to apologize and now he is bending over backwards to make it up to me, but his "new attitude" is very annoying and I feel he is only on this wonderful "new" behavior because he feels guillty. I am not looking at him through the same loving eyes and I feel emotionally dead inside. I don't want to end my marriage, but I have totally lost my enthusiasm and feel like a walking zombie, going through the motions. How could he just ignore me on a special day that afforded him the opportunity to let me know that I am appreciated for all I do all year long. I would never not acknowledge him on Fathers Day or his birthday. We have been married for 8 years, together for 14. How do I get my job back??