I told my husband I wanted a divorce back in June. We went days without speaking to each other, never did anything together & I didnt want to live like that anymore.He was very manipulative & controlling during our marriage. He became very nasty after that (I unstand he was hurt & upset). All the mean things he said I let go in one ear & out the other. He told our kid & neighbors I was having an affair (not true). Anyhow after months of waiting he has finally moved out. I painted all the rooms in his new place, cleaned, help move etc. Our son (16) decided to move in with him. This was a big surprise because our son always complained about what a jerk his dad was. I have not said anything about the things my husband has said or done to me to our son because I dont want him put in the middle of things. My husband keeps telling me son wants nothing to do with me, and comments on everythings I do negatively. He gets angry if I talk to my friends or go anywhere. There is a part of me that knows he's just trying to control me still, but I'm so afraid he is going to turn my son against me. I don't know how to deal with this. I give son $$ & help him with his expenses & try to keep line of comunication open, but I know his dad is always trying to manipulate him too. I would be VERY happy if I never had to interact with my husband but I know because of our child we must speak. What do I do? How do I let my son know how important he is to me without hurting him more. I cry because I'm so hurt by the way my husband is acting & my fear of losing my relationship with our son. I want to be happy but feel like husband is always going to do his best to make sure that doesn't happen.