How are things going? I know you don't have much time to post and you've only had a couple days to work on digesting people's advice/information, but I hope you'll keep us updated when you can. I think a lot of people are pulling for you for things to get better. I know I am.
I'm a failure as wife. My husband hates me. I can't do anything right for him. I don't keep the house clean enough. I don't manage the kids well enough. I ask him for help too often. He doesn't want to be around me. He won't spend time with me. He won't kiss me. He doesn't talk to me. He doesn't cuddle me. He hates me, because I suck as a wife and mother. Nothing I do is right or enough and I don't know what to do to make him happy. He tells me what he needs and I still cannot make him happy anymore. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm a failure as a wife. I can't even keep my husband happy. It's the one thing I should be able to do. He thinks I'm a bad mother, and if he thinks that then it's probably true. I can't do anything right.