My husband and I have been separated just over a year now. He has been in another country for 6 months and is meant to be back at the end of November. I am hoping we will reconcile. I left him after our DD was born 3 months early. I spoke to him the other day (first time in 3 months) and he said "not a day goes by that I don't think about you and DD) he also asked if he can take us out to lunch. So here's hoping we can work it out. My question is how long have you been apart for? I guess i'm worried because it's been quite awhile since I left him.