i have been with my man for 5 years. we have three children ages four two and eighteen months. in the past three months he has changed banks, now i am no longer on the account, wants me to get car insurance on my dads policy, and i have heard rumors he was talking to another girl. i actually talked to this girl she says she is happy with her guy and my guy did call her and she told him she wanted nothing to do with him. anyway what have i done? i stay home all day and keep the kids while he works. when he comes home he drinks his self to sleep... never wants to spend time with me, and its tearing me apart. i want to walk away from it all and just give up but i want to know what wrong with him to he doesnt talk to me and never spends time with the children its really annoying and i cant take it any more.. i wanna give up.