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but it just seems we are in a business of raising kids (at least that's how i feel).
Sure, this isn't butterflies inducing. But, leaving your wife doesn't mean you won't still be in the raising kids business. You'll still have to do that, plus any children your greener grass woman has, plus any children your greener grass woman will want to have with you.

You're not going to live the life of an International Man of Mystery when you're a dad. Sorry. Imagine how non-sexy your wife feels when she's got kids hanging off her wanting something all day long. I'll bet she's even less excited than you.

What if she does find someone else? How does that make you feel? You want another man making love to her and raising your children?

You signed up for this life with children, so it is what it is. They'll grow up and it will pass as you and your wife focus on yourselves again.

If you're bored, be less boring. Take your wife on dates and focus your energy on wooing her and making her fall in love with you again. Practice your new-found extroversion on her - flirt with her, tease her, win her over. That will be worth a lot more to you in the long run than trying to win over a new woman with whom you will eventually get bored just like you are bored now.
 
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