My husband, will not perform oral on me. He's never even tried. He said it's due to his first girlfriend, starting her period and him going down on her 'without knowing.' And then I asked him, if he could just please do it, just once! I just want to know what it feels like, because he's been the only person i've been with sexually and he told me no because then i'll just keep wanting it. Sigh... I stopped giving him oral for about a year now to change his mind and he hasn't. I don't know what else to do.. ideas men/ladies?