Install a keylogger and get a VAR and snoop on his phone, you can install stuff on most to get texts and stuff. I would do it NOW. Don't tell him you have done so. Tell him you have a bad feeling about this woman and that you want him to stop contacting her, then see what he does. Based on his reactions so far, he'll blow you off. Then sit back and wait for the evidence. Once you have it, confront him and kick his sorry ass out.
I think he is about to cheat...
I know I am wrong because I am invading his privacy, but: I have his facebook password (he does not know) and I found out last night he is messaging with an old friend he found at a party two weeks ago... We actually had a fight about it because when he got home at 3am his shirt (black) was all stained with make up and smelled like women's parfum...
I decided to stay calmed because I got the obligatory explanation
"she's a friend I haven't seen in a very long time and two of my friends always wanted to date her... we dance and there's nothing wrong with that and if you think that's wrong then that's your problem, you are the one who is WRONG"
I thought "Am I going to leave him because of this? I don't think so and I made myself think nothing wrong can come out of this...
BAD...
They became friends just yesterday and then started talking to each other about that day... Then at night I wanted to have intimacy but he was very busy on his phone on FB... Even after he was done I was ready to make love but he said he didn't take a shower (Which he did!!! WTF?) but I knew that was his way to say "I am not in the mood". He hans't been in the mood in one week...
Anyways... in the conversation I saw on his FB they were talking about something they talked about back at the party... She has always been in love with him and now he says he is going to be very aware of it... and he told her to think about it. He just seem to have in mind to have something with her...
I could not sleep and I feel infidelity is coming...
I don't know if I should stay as if nothing is happening and see where this goes... because talking to him about it it's definetely not going to work.
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I decided to stay calmed because I got the obligatory explanation
"she's a friend I haven't seen in a very long time and two of my friends always wanted to date her... we dance and there's nothing wrong with that and if you think that's wrong then that's your problem, you are the one who is WRONG"
I thought "Am I going to leave him because of this? I don't think so and I made myself think nothing wrong can come out of this...
BAD...
They became friends just yesterday and then started talking to each other about that day... Then at night I wanted to have intimacy but he was very busy on his phone on FB... Even after he was done I was ready to make love but he said he didn't take a shower (Which he did!!! WTF?) but I knew that was his way to say "I am not in the mood". He hans't been in the mood in one week...
Anyways... in the conversation I saw on his FB they were talking about something they talked about back at the party... She has always been in love with him and now he says he is going to be very aware of it... and he told her to think about it. He just seem to have in mind to have something with her...
I could not sleep and I feel infidelity is coming...
I don't know if I should stay as if nothing is happening and see where this goes... because talking to him about it it's definetely not going to work.
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Do not blow off these clues.I know I am wrong because I am invading his privacy, but: I have his facebook password (he does not know) and I found out last night he is messaging with an old friend he found at a party two weeks ago... We actually had a fight about it because when he got home at 3am his shirt (black) was all stained with make up and smelled like women's parfum...
I decided to stay calmed because I got the obligatory explanation
"she's a friend I haven't seen in a very long time and two of my friends always wanted to date her... we dance and there's nothing wrong with that and if you think that's wrong then that's your problem, you are the one who is WRONG"
I thought "Am I going to leave him because of this? I don't think so and I made myself think nothing wrong can come out of this...
BAD...
They became friends just yesterday and then started talking to each other about that day... Then at night I wanted to have intimacy but he was very busy on his phone on FB... Even after he was done I was ready to make love but he said he didn't take a shower (Which he did!!! WTF?) but I knew that was his way to say "I am not in the mood". He hans't been in the mood in one week...
Anyways... in the conversation I saw on his FB they were talking about something they talked about back at the party... She has always been in love with him and now he says he is going to be very aware of it... and he told her to think about it. He just seem to have in mind to have something with her...
I could not sleep and I feel infidelity is coming...
I don't know if I should stay as if nothing is happening and see where this goes... because talking to him about it it's definetely not going to work.
My spouse came home smelling flowery and when I questioned him he said they changed the soap at the gym. That was pure Bulldokey.
Also, I found a red smear on his collar.....how damned cliche. I didn't even realize it was lipstick, I teased him about getting some red ink on his collar, when it wouldn't easily come out in the wash. I later found out the OW wore red lipstain.
Now how stupid is that?
The fact that my cheating spouse let me slave over trying to get that red stain out now irks me.
Also, check to see if the passenger side car seat is moved to a position different from yours.
It means a taller or shorter person sat in it.
Also check the head rest for hair. After Dday, I found long hair that was not mine wrapped in the metal of the head rest.
He will likely deny an affair is brewing, so asking may or may not help.
One night I was busy (I was really busy, writing an article for a website) and my wife looked at me in a 'certain' way and I said: "Just wait while I save this document!" and that was that for the rest of the evening. After cuddling for a hour afterwards my wife smiled, then said: "Go and finish that article off, now!"
And that's how it should happen.
Your husband was busy. Busy having an affair, in my opinion. Sorry.
Hit you?
If that's based on past experience, you should just GTFO now!
He has hit me when "he gets desperate", when "he gets tired of me talking..." and I didn't even want to accept that but yes... he even choked me once back in december and I was very affraid... I even forgave him that and I thought that was ok because I love him and it was my fault for being nagging him...Hit you?
OMG, how stupid I sound...?
saying this like it's normal to be hit, because it was "only" 2 times...?
I just don't get how can I stop being so dependent on him!
Anyone has controlled dependency???
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