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After 4 years of marriage and a 2 yr old son, I found out recently that my husband lied about the "diamond ring" he bought me. It supposedly cost 12,000, but what I found out was that it was maybe $200-300.
I confronted my husband and he said that someone frauded him and that its not possible that the ring is fake. I asked for proof and he said that he bought the ring from a buddy of his that is a jewelry designer and paid cash. He said he would track this guy down and get to the bottom of it. Its been 3 weeks, and everytime he says hes busy but hes gonna get to the bottom of things. I know he's lying but I didnt want to make it a scene, but I started to get suspicious.
I checked the rest of the jewelry that him and his mom gave me. A family heirloom diamond bracelet was also fake. Also the diamond earings given to me on the birth of my son were fake.
So there is this Breitling watch he always bragged about that he bought when he was single and working for 10k. Some special edition style. Guess what? FAKE!
So then I called around and found out that his bachelors in business and his executive mba is also a fake. He only has a high school diploma.
His job title of Sales and Marketing executive at some big hot shot car rental corporate company as upper management. FAKE. He worked as a front line car rental sales guy.
The house him and his family said they bought and then sold.... also a lie. I found letters from their tenant.
On top of all this, he pretty much hijacked my parents small little business with his lies and more or less kicked them out. He says he made it what it is (in 1 year as a lazy bum who hardly even worked there). He started to give them less and less profit and for the past three months he says we made nothing. He added his name to the company as president and has his name also on the bank accounts.
On top of all this, he's a jerk. He is controlling, narrow minded, arrogant, verbally abusive, expects me to do everything at home plus work at the family business everyday and come hom and take care our son at night.
I have never liked him too much, I hated a lot of things about his personality, his looks like his nose, and just how annoying his whole family is.
Plus whenever I have lied (white lies) like when someone asks "did u do that thing i asked you to?" and youd reply "yeh i did" but u really didnt to avoid an immediate argument. he would turn it into a big scene and yell at me and make me cry and appologize like crazy.
the only good thing about him would be when hed take me to the movies or out to dinner, but at whose expense? my parents took the hit.
so ive decided to leave him and finish my education because of him i dropped it half way cuz he wanted me to only take care of the baby.
but im scared, hes like weird and bipolar, hes got anger issues. plus i want to give him and his family my son temporarily until i finish my med school ( 2 years). but i feel really guilty even thinking that. so i thought maybe i coud get him to pay my sons full expenses and have my parents take care of him.
Im so confused about how to do this all and if Im right to do it.
I confronted my husband and he said that someone frauded him and that its not possible that the ring is fake. I asked for proof and he said that he bought the ring from a buddy of his that is a jewelry designer and paid cash. He said he would track this guy down and get to the bottom of it. Its been 3 weeks, and everytime he says hes busy but hes gonna get to the bottom of things. I know he's lying but I didnt want to make it a scene, but I started to get suspicious.
I checked the rest of the jewelry that him and his mom gave me. A family heirloom diamond bracelet was also fake. Also the diamond earings given to me on the birth of my son were fake.
So there is this Breitling watch he always bragged about that he bought when he was single and working for 10k. Some special edition style. Guess what? FAKE!
So then I called around and found out that his bachelors in business and his executive mba is also a fake. He only has a high school diploma.
His job title of Sales and Marketing executive at some big hot shot car rental corporate company as upper management. FAKE. He worked as a front line car rental sales guy.
The house him and his family said they bought and then sold.... also a lie. I found letters from their tenant.
On top of all this, he pretty much hijacked my parents small little business with his lies and more or less kicked them out. He says he made it what it is (in 1 year as a lazy bum who hardly even worked there). He started to give them less and less profit and for the past three months he says we made nothing. He added his name to the company as president and has his name also on the bank accounts.
On top of all this, he's a jerk. He is controlling, narrow minded, arrogant, verbally abusive, expects me to do everything at home plus work at the family business everyday and come hom and take care our son at night.
I have never liked him too much, I hated a lot of things about his personality, his looks like his nose, and just how annoying his whole family is.
Plus whenever I have lied (white lies) like when someone asks "did u do that thing i asked you to?" and youd reply "yeh i did" but u really didnt to avoid an immediate argument. he would turn it into a big scene and yell at me and make me cry and appologize like crazy.
the only good thing about him would be when hed take me to the movies or out to dinner, but at whose expense? my parents took the hit.
so ive decided to leave him and finish my education because of him i dropped it half way cuz he wanted me to only take care of the baby.
but im scared, hes like weird and bipolar, hes got anger issues. plus i want to give him and his family my son temporarily until i finish my med school ( 2 years). but i feel really guilty even thinking that. so i thought maybe i coud get him to pay my sons full expenses and have my parents take care of him.
Im so confused about how to do this all and if Im right to do it.
