I asked him many many times, after all he makes 1/3 of a million per year. I dont go on shopping trips or none of it. I stay home with my baby for a few months more. With the costs of daycare, my income of 60k seemed a bit irrelevent , which he told me. But he goes back and forth, “when are you going back to work/ to “ take all the time you need, your income wont change anything” to “ our son should socialize in daycare” to “ find a job that you like but take your time” to its okay if you never find a job but how do you contribute exactly”? I also breastfeed 3 times a night.