Ok this is kind of complicated. But a while back i noticed this guy from my wifes work was always talking to her or messaging her on fb. Nothing really inappropriate just flirting with little insults and stuff like that. Then it just kept getting more frequent and I found out she gave him her number. I saw it on a phone bill and immediately went to detective work to pull up erased text messages. Again nothing inappropriate just mild flirting, but my wife was doing it too kind of. I told my wife about it and i said that it pisses me off and i didnt want her talking to the guy outside of work. She immediately blew up at me calling me psychotic and nothing going on. So got through that and it started up again a week or so later and again i brought it up and she flipped out and said she was wrong and wouldnt do it again. However of course again i find out thats not the case. Its not whats in the context of the message its just becoming to frequent and this is a single guy tlaking to a married woman. Shes been telling him that she shouldnt talk to him because i might be tracking her, but she still continues to do it. This guy has made me into this insecure ahole that i dont trust my wife at all and feel the need to monitor her. She insisits theres nothing going on but it just irritates the living hell out of me. I need help here? Do i just drop it and be naive about it? what do i do?