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i had beautiful family with two adorable kids . the husband who adore me loved me .. due to his work , he travel alot .. we married for 10 years . he totally trust me , let me do whatever i want .. supportive and perfect husband , 9 months ago i got msg in my fb . from a guy i never met ..he was from same country as i am , but i left the country 10 years ago. first i was too shy to reply his msg , but he insist ... telling me that we belong to each other , that he know me from our past life ..and i click with him from the first ..he was so much like myself .. made me laugh . made me cry .. he was married too , but no children . as he was not sure if he going to stay with his wife forever ...he told me i m reason of his life .. he begged me not to stopp talking to him ..and i did not feel so bad because it was chat and not any physical connection. as time past we call each other every two hours..email every 10 min ..we both fell in love ..as i totally ignore my husband ..there was no love for my husband in my heart any more ..he became my best friend as i became his best friend .. we wanted to see each other , he came to my country , he wanted to come alone. but i ask him to bring his wife .. as he talked about me to all his family , they already knew me .. but of course did not say from fb .. he told i am his childhood friend . any way ..i still remember how happy excited like a baby to see my love .. i went to the air port .. i saw love in his eyes .. we made for each other he told me .. we were six month in each other life ... i knew every thing about him .. he was exactly what i wanted as husband .. but i never told him .. i did not want him to go out of my life as he wanted too .. we desided to know each other wife and husband , so my husband met him too , four of us while they were in my country went out together , wierd i know . but it was only between me and him .... we had kiss .. only kiss .. he adore me .. he cried so much for me .. he talked to me how much he appriciate me in his life ... he took my heart with him when he travel back to his country , and left his haert with me...
called me every 10 min.. i can say 40 calls per day! my phone bill and his was so much ... we desided to talk less as his wife was suspect ... but we could not ... till my husband by chance found one of my email to him .... then he reset AND found out all the emails , print my phone bills .... and he hurt . asked me why ?? what was wrong with him?? i had nothing to say ... he was good person . he told me i stole some one else husband . he told me he ll divorce me .. he even told my whole family that i cheat on him in his beliefe he think we had sex .. but no .. my husband called the guy , shout on him , made him scare , even told every thing to his wife , forwarded all the emails to his wife , and she read .. then my husband changed my phone number. house phone . my email address and even no fb account ... it been 64 days ...
no news from him ...and still every day my husband treat me like cheater .. i hurt ... my family hates me .. my husband lost his trust and check me every hour .. and i miss HIM...wonder what happened to him ... and conviced myself that he did not love me as if , he could find me ....i am so sad every day .. wish never met this guy , at least i could look at my husband eye today proudly ... what can i do ...
 

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You have to work to regain your husband's trust and you can start by stop thinking about the other man. Concentrate that desire you have back to your husband.

Can you go to marriage counseling?
 

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wow. do you want to work things out with your husband? if so, get some counseling together. talk a lot and forget the other man
 

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yes i want to regain my husband trust , but you think he will trust me again? i ashame infront of my family , which i cry ever time i think about it , you think feeling will go? i am angry and hate the guy who play with my life , almost destroy it ..cant stop tinking of how why he did it . do you think he will contact me? and i hate myself too .. i know i did mistake but i cant concentrate on my life till all these negative feeling exsit
 
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