I was flirting via email with a married woman, to the point where we were going for a drink, and her husband caught us and told my wife - I denied everything and lied for hours about it. The next day I told her the truth - and she is devastatedce clean and told her the truth. I lied to her though and she thinks it was going to be a full blown affair. How do I fix this mess ? How do I get her trust back? Any help at all is appreciated
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Ok, Listen, what TYPE of man do you WANT TO BE -from here on in? What type husband, Father, son, brother.... and ask yourself...is this just giving LIP SERVICE to save face, to get over a hump & move on.... or do you genuinelly want to be there for your wife, work on your marriage- get the intimacy back WITH HER.... be an honorable man of
integrity ??
YOU are getting beat up here pretty bad with some of these replies, this is to be expected...many here have been hurt like this & have caught their spouses in such lies -that led to further than you got. When caught, it = trying to get away with something, so the wife can NOT erase this from her brain & her
right now. It is
betrayal to her and what you have "built" together.
I believe in 2nd chances, we are all capable of screwing up & doing something STUPID , even hurtful in a wrong moment, or we allowed things to get out of hand -for near pleasure or even Ego.....it happens. I wouldn't throw a husband to the curb for this... but TRUST is essential, you will have to EARN IT NOW.... is your wife worth the mountain you need to climb to get this back.. are you up for the task ??
Your answer lies in showing genuine remorse ....and then a willing "
Transparency" with her .... Read carefully my thread.... it needs to become your Lifestyle -because you love your wife & want to do right by her....and for you both to diligently work on what has been lost in your marraige along the way.. ? What are the issues ?
http://talkaboutmarriage.com/genera...parency-what-means-our-marraige-what-you.html