My husband I have been together since for almost 13 years. But we have only been married for 5 years. We use to be best friends and talk to each other about everything. I joined the Army back in 2012 and we were apart for about 6 months. I trust my husband and I know that he wouldn't cheat. But my concern is that when I got back he became a lot more controlling. Listing things I couldn't do or being jealous because I would do things when he was at work with the kids like take them to the movies. Not that we don't all go together occassionally. He gets upset and continuosly says that I don't listen to him. Not like we are talking and I am tuning him out but like he wants me to do or not do something and I never do what he tells me to. Recently I have become irriatated with it and I just don't know what to do. I try my best to be the best wife and mother I can be but for some reason it is never good enough and something else is always wrong. Sometimes I feel like I'm fighting a losing battle. But honestly I just want us to go back to being the way we use to cuddling and not arguing over every little thing. I am so exhausted and I love him so much but I don't believe marriage is about control it's about compromise and working together to solve problems not do what I say when I say. I just don't know what to do or say anymore please help.