That's one big wall of text. It's hard to read. Maybe you should break it into paragraphs.
:iagree:All this drama................over pics of her life before you where she has 2 kids with someone else?
Sorry, but that's her kid's Dad and one way or another he will ALWAYS be in the picture. You knew this going in, but his pics bother you? :scratchhead:
Not necessarily. I divorced my ex over 25 years ago and I still have my wedding photographs and photographs of my ex with our son. I don't keep them for personal sentimental reasons, but feel that I have to keep them for our son one day.Flames not quite gone for that ex I'd say.. Hell, I'm indifferent / dislike my exes.
Ex's are Ex's for many reasons. But when you have a child with that person, you can't just "erase the past" by tossing out the pics. That person is still very much part of the present and future of the child.Not necessarily. I divorced my ex over 25 years ago and I still have my wedding photographs and photographs of my ex with our son. I don't keep them for personal sentimental reasons, but feel that I have to keep them for our son one day.
Ok good! So what was her reaction and are you still separated?I have owned up to it, i do fully accept responsibility for my actions. And i am going way beyond just saying "sorry" i have recovered almost all the pictures and they are hers to do whatever she pleases with them. I was wrong for all the reasons that are obvious. And yes i was insecure and yes i did act childish. We are all human, i screwed up, i admit that and want to make it right, let alone never do it again because i have learned from it and i never plan on doing anything like it again.
Im going to call BS on this point....Her anger over it stems from her own unfulfilled fantasies more than anything you did.