Get rid of your therapist.Honestly, i cant say she has been cheating me for years. Emotionally connected to others, yes.
I went to a thearapist. He refused to say anything with certainty. He asked me to fill a form and bring my wife. I have zero interest in going for counsellung with her because she will justify and i cant bear it.
Also, today i mentioned going to counseller, she questioned me the purpose of it.
I asked the counseller to tell me what is happening. He didnt, thats why i found this group and posted and you guys gave me a lot more inputs than that therapist did after paying a lot of money. All he seemed to be interested in was more money, more time and he clearly indicated reconciliation.
He was asking me to focus on my wife's well-bring, like i did anything else all my married life.