Hello and thx for reading my post. I am male SINGLE mixrace professional educated cultured based in London UK
Over the years I have had both friendships and affairs with several married women.
Curiously I was not the one initiating the affair.
Married women from work and my local circle made the first advances which lead to sexual encounters and affairs.
Honestly I never understood why?
When I probed the questions with the women involved the answers were many and varied
Boredom
Neglected by husband
Need sexual gratification has husband is not up to the task
Some actually enjoyed cheating and loved the thrill of illicit affairs.
Revenge on cheating husband
Others wanted to experiment into various kinks lifestyles without husband knowlegde.
I never went out to look for affairs actively. It just happened many times on a regularly basis
If I refused or said not interested the women replied they would look elsewhere.
So might as well be me instead as a trusted friend companion lover.
Being single this was fun as its sex with no committment whatsoever. Took precautions like condons and std free
In my day to day life I am seen as someone who would never ever do anything like this.
I have always kept this strictly private with not even my closest friends ever knowing this side of me.
I know the husbands would be unhappy if this they found out.
Other men turned a blind eye
Stay married but unhapppy?
Or Play discreetly outside the marriage
There is no easy answer I guess
Would like to hear your thoughts
Kindly appreciate honest comments but refrain from abuse
Regards
Over the years I have had both friendships and affairs with several married women.
Curiously I was not the one initiating the affair.
Married women from work and my local circle made the first advances which lead to sexual encounters and affairs.
Honestly I never understood why?
When I probed the questions with the women involved the answers were many and varied
Boredom
Neglected by husband
Need sexual gratification has husband is not up to the task
Some actually enjoyed cheating and loved the thrill of illicit affairs.
Revenge on cheating husband
Others wanted to experiment into various kinks lifestyles without husband knowlegde.
I never went out to look for affairs actively. It just happened many times on a regularly basis
If I refused or said not interested the women replied they would look elsewhere.
So might as well be me instead as a trusted friend companion lover.
Being single this was fun as its sex with no committment whatsoever. Took precautions like condons and std free
In my day to day life I am seen as someone who would never ever do anything like this.
I have always kept this strictly private with not even my closest friends ever knowing this side of me.
I know the husbands would be unhappy if this they found out.
Other men turned a blind eye
Stay married but unhapppy?
Or Play discreetly outside the marriage
There is no easy answer I guess
Would like to hear your thoughts
Kindly appreciate honest comments but refrain from abuse
Regards
