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My wife use to say "Honey, I love you, I will ALWAYS love you, but I don't love you like 'that' right now"
Yesterday, after eating supper with the girls. I got home and we were calmly talking. One, she was upset when I made her think I had paid a lawyer. Then, we were talking later and she said a few more phrases.
"I just don't love you anymore...I'm sorry" I said "at all?" Her: "no, not really"
Then I was asking her about all the time prior to the kids showing up about how she would come to me and tell me how happy she was and how much she loved me and how I'd better not leave her... She said "Because at that particular time I was happy and thot my life was going in a good direction. Those were happy times for me... but I don't want that anymore. I don't want YOU to make me feel that way"
Yeah, even trying my 180 and doing ok, that hurt. Tons. I didn't break down then, and I'm proud of myself. But I don't believe her, not really. She was too happy before the teens showed up. It was like a light switch.
She still wants to take the kiddo ToTing on Halloween. Should I go with them? Or go to a friends bonfire that a nice and pretty girl wants me to go to?
I'm still very much hurt. I'm getting over her but it still hurts. Please post your thoughts, I need support now, and I think it's gonna get worse before it gets better. Here lately I've been very full of emotion...
Yesterday, after eating supper with the girls. I got home and we were calmly talking. One, she was upset when I made her think I had paid a lawyer. Then, we were talking later and she said a few more phrases.
"I just don't love you anymore...I'm sorry" I said "at all?" Her: "no, not really"
Then I was asking her about all the time prior to the kids showing up about how she would come to me and tell me how happy she was and how much she loved me and how I'd better not leave her... She said "Because at that particular time I was happy and thot my life was going in a good direction. Those were happy times for me... but I don't want that anymore. I don't want YOU to make me feel that way"
Yeah, even trying my 180 and doing ok, that hurt. Tons. I didn't break down then, and I'm proud of myself. But I don't believe her, not really. She was too happy before the teens showed up. It was like a light switch.
She still wants to take the kiddo ToTing on Halloween. Should I go with them? Or go to a friends bonfire that a nice and pretty girl wants me to go to?
I'm still very much hurt. I'm getting over her but it still hurts. Please post your thoughts, I need support now, and I think it's gonna get worse before it gets better. Here lately I've been very full of emotion...