My husband and I been together for 8 years married for about 1 and a half. About 2 weeks ago I found a needle and a spoon in our bathroom I then found out he had been doing it for weeks. In those weeks I felt deep down like he was hiding something but could never put my finger on it till I found it. He cant really give me a reason of why and I am so lost. He never seemed to be the one to do this and I have no one to turn to without judgement. I really been up his ass finding out what he spends on what where he goes and what he does. I feel like a horrible wife and only thing he said why he did it cause he was unhappy. I mean we had our disagreements but not the the point I knew he was unhappy I blame myself even though I would tell myself not to blame me but I know I was apart of why he turned to that. Right now I want to work it out never want to give up he is a great man but right now really messed up and he says he has not touched it since but I am not sure if he still lying any advise. Please dont say just leave him becuase I want to work it out till there is no more options left.