Until your H starts to feel some consequences, his bad behavior will continue. I know its time to show him the tough love he needs to face the reality and he most have the perception that you can and will leave this marriage.
The best way to show him how confident you are in letting him go is asking him to leave. Sure it sound over the top, but what better consequence then having to deal with the reality of losing you.
I guess you could try a nicer approach and ask him to get help for his issues, but nicing your way out of this kind of crap never really works, it just prolongs it.
The best way to show him how confident you are in letting him go is asking him to leave. Sure it sound over the top, but what better consequence then having to deal with the reality of losing you.
I guess you could try a nicer approach and ask him to get help for his issues, but nicing your way out of this kind of crap never really works, it just prolongs it.