For heavens sake do not tell her any of your plans, it only helps then get in your way contacting his wife. By he is likely checking her email, fb, and phone to intercept you, and he's likely told her sone story about the crazy husband of a woman at work,
You blew it by not exposing months ago. Your big mistake was thinking you could threaten and negotiate your wife back into being a wife.
Ok, new plan,
Stop talking to your wife. Stop threatening exposure,stop tellinger your plans.
Get all your evidence and make three copies of it,
First copy goes some place safe. Like your office at work, your grand mothers basement etc.
Second copy gets given to the OMW, but not by you. Have a trusted female friend hand it to her personally. Find the OM home address and have the friend got , introduce herself explain the situation and hand it over.
There won't be any lawsuits. He will be too busy saving his butt.
The third one you keep and share with your lawyer.
You need a good lawyer. Do you live in an alienation of affection state? If so go after the doctor. He'll have nice deep pockets of cash to go after.
Carry a var on you and record everything your wife threatens you with. Don't mention the var just record away.
Secure money. Your paycheck goes into a private bank account.
Cancel joint CC and put a credit watch on yourself and your wife.
You blew it by not exposing months ago. Your big mistake was thinking you could threaten and negotiate your wife back into being a wife.
Ok, new plan,
Stop talking to your wife. Stop threatening exposure,stop tellinger your plans.
Get all your evidence and make three copies of it,
First copy goes some place safe. Like your office at work, your grand mothers basement etc.
Second copy gets given to the OMW, but not by you. Have a trusted female friend hand it to her personally. Find the OM home address and have the friend got , introduce herself explain the situation and hand it over.
There won't be any lawsuits. He will be too busy saving his butt.
The third one you keep and share with your lawyer.
You need a good lawyer. Do you live in an alienation of affection state? If so go after the doctor. He'll have nice deep pockets of cash to go after.
Carry a var on you and record everything your wife threatens you with. Don't mention the var just record away.
Secure money. Your paycheck goes into a private bank account.
Cancel joint CC and put a credit watch on yourself and your wife.