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I feel like I am stuck with no options

19K views 78 replies 31 participants last post by  Omegaa 
For heavens sake do not tell her any of your plans, it only helps then get in your way contacting his wife. By he is likely checking her email, fb, and phone to intercept you, and he's likely told her sone story about the crazy husband of a woman at work,

You blew it by not exposing months ago. Your big mistake was thinking you could threaten and negotiate your wife back into being a wife.

Ok, new plan,

Stop talking to your wife. Stop threatening exposure,stop tellinger your plans.

Get all your evidence and make three copies of it,

First copy goes some place safe. Like your office at work, your grand mothers basement etc.

Second copy gets given to the OMW, but not by you. Have a trusted female friend hand it to her personally. Find the OM home address and have the friend got , introduce herself explain the situation and hand it over.

There won't be any lawsuits. He will be too busy saving his butt.

The third one you keep and share with your lawyer.

You need a good lawyer. Do you live in an alienation of affection state? If so go after the doctor. He'll have nice deep pockets of cash to go after.

Carry a var on you and record everything your wife threatens you with. Don't mention the var just record away.

Secure money. Your paycheck goes into a private bank account.

Cancel joint CC and put a credit watch on yourself and your wife.
 
And stop trying to negotiate with a proven liar. You are just going to keep getting the same results over and over.

You keep trying to play gentle softball when they keep on walking all over you. Time to stand up and act.

Oh, and post the doctor on cheaterville.com that way when patients google him, they'll find out what he's all about.
 
If you can't expose directly to his wife, then expose to the world around him and word will get to his wife.

Your lawyers advice stinks. Siting back living in a marriage with an one cheater robs you of your soul and teaches your kids to avoid dealing with problems.

Get a much better and mire aggressive lawyer.

When you file, see about naming the dear doctor in the suit.

Is the doctor military? Make sure you contact his command , it will not be kind to him.
 
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