Time to set boundaries and consequences or he will keep on. First off stop helping to enable him, by that I mean stop putting money in his band account . You're adding to the problem.
If this is truly a problem for you, give him a ultimatium but make sure you follow through on what you say. Tell him you would like for him to get help for his habits, if he refuses, then pack your bags and leave.
Get yourself into some local alanon support groups, and check and see if there is one for gambling as well.
If this is truly a problem for you, give him a ultimatium but make sure you follow through on what you say. Tell him you would like for him to get help for his habits, if he refuses, then pack your bags and leave.
Get yourself into some local alanon support groups, and check and see if there is one for gambling as well.