Last year, my husband turned himself into the local law enforcement for exposing himself to my daughter. He had been drinking nightly, more than I knew of (he would drink in the car after he got home, before he came inside) and was looking at porn a lot. After I got her and her brother back from the state(they were removed, citing a threat to the childrens welfare) I left town. My daughter was afraid that I would turn my husband into the cops if she told me, smart girl. Just recently, he sent me a letter, asking my forgiveness for everything that has happened. Thing is, I still love my husband. There is no trust whatsoever and after twelve years of marriage, it's hard. Being Christian, I have forgiven him for lying to me, for hiding it from me. Forgiveness for the act will have to come from my daughter however. Being away from the alcohol and the porn has opened his eyes to the severity of his actions and after my telling him that I was going to file for a divorce, he is asking me to reconsider. Praying for me to reconsider, he says. Needing my support now, more than ever. What about my daughter?! I need her to know that I am in her corner, 200%. So I'm stuck, proverbial rock and hard place. Should I file the divorce paperwork or just separate and do counseling after he gets out of prison?