I honestly think there is a bigger problem. Did you not set the checks down in your register when you wrote them? It doesn't matter when the recipient deposits the checks. The money is not yours once the check is written. My estranged husband, after nearly 30 years, still does that. All the bouncing checks are beyond annoying.
In the future, to eliminate petty fights, you need to keep your check register balanced and follow a budget. A budget works best if you and your husband make it together and agree on how money will be spent.
In the future, to eliminate petty fights, you need to keep your check register balanced and follow a budget. A budget works best if you and your husband make it together and agree on how money will be spent.