I am a 30 year old woman and have had a rough 11 plus years. I thought for once I found the man of my dreams and as of now not so sure. I had my first son at 19 with my high school sweetheart he was to self centered and I couldn't deal with it so we went our ways. I met a new man who became my husband when I was 22 and we lived our separate lives as I took care of our son and my 1st son alone and he was out at the bars and with other women. we conceived 2 children and divorced when i turned 26. I met my new husband shortly after. He became my best friend and for once made me feel special. We slowly got our children together and became a family. I became pregnant 2 years into our relationship and as I went to check my emails on my own computer i stumbled across a bunch of emails pictures you name it from exes and aff. of my husband. We worked things out he said he was stupid didn't mean it etc. but I didn't believe him. Now our son is 3 months old and i found thousands of videos and pictures of my husbands exes and other porn on his computer. How do I approach this and what can I do? I've been trying to stay calm but Im so darn hurt.