Well all you can do now is try to move on.We did talk yesterday about phoning the police, the problem is we don't know anything about him and also stupidly i had her throw away everything she had that night, clothes, bag and contents. I didn't want anything to remind me of it. plus im not sure if either of us want to drag it out and remind us of it everyday.
she has a different job now, try to use this opportunity to set new and stronger boundaries so that this does not repeat itself.
Best wishes in the future with your relationship!