My husband & I have been in a relationship for 4 yrs, married 2. I'm 21. I have only had an orgasm with one person & I'm very embarrassed about the situation. The person that I cam with was a pedifile( I was 12 & he was in his late 40's), for the year that he molested me I was able to, but I have never cum with anyone else. I can do it by myself. I feel like he robbed me of something that was supposed to be a great thing to experience with a lover, not his perverted self. What do you guys think about my situation? Can pedifiles be cured?