I have tried to forgive him after his infidelity but eventually afterwards, I found he has been lying although I put all my trust in him. He abused me psychologically, was blaming me and even hit me several times. I stayed with him 23 years but I have realised that I deserve to be treated better. I have realised that the fear of uncertainty will always be there as trust has been broken. I thought of marriage being till death do us part but I was blind. I stayed mainly because of my two children but now they are grown ups. What would you do in my place?