I myself have been cheated on in the past and know of the pain it causes and there for have built a pretty good wall around me and do not allow anyone in. Forward along the track I met my baby's father who was just so different to the rest (arent they always) and really was someone like ive never met before, intelligent, witty, funny, apparently good moralled, new of my history and said he would never do anything like that to me. Anyway after a short period of time and yes we were sleeping together I became pregnant, no we hadnt planned it, i told him and he took off and sent me a text message wishing me luck with the baby and he was not in a position for one and he was really really sorry. Not to be heard from again for a few months, then we were in touch again (i kept the baby) and he had a keen interest in knowing of the pregnancy and baby's well being until it came time to talk about the birth certificate etc and his family knowing about the baby. The due date for bubs had came and gone and I received information from a good friend whom had been told from a good source that my baby's father actually owned and lived with a girl he had been dating for over 4 years in which their families were waiting for them to have children etc, this devastated me and i let him know of this. Since then i have had the baby in which he has pictures and now ive had to go through child support etc he has become nasty. Im not sure if his partner knows however i know his parents do because i told them. Anyway so yeah i am working hard and making a life for me and my baby. I dont want him anywhere near me however being my babys father i would never stop him from being a part of her life. Now i have felt the brunt of both sides, being cheated on and being the who was the "other" woman (even though i had no idea i was)... No more men for me ever....