My husband and I are trying to concieve. We have encountered nothing but negativity outside of our close friends and family about having children. We are young and we know that, but the negativity really doesn't help our situation or make things any easier for us. I'm at my wits end with it, and I'd hate to break contact with people just because of something so stupid. I don't understand what the big issue is. It's our life, why can't they live and let live?