First post. I wasn't sure where to put this. I have been married for about a year and a half, but I am confused anymore she keeps saying I am manipulative, and that I emotionally abuse her. She has told me she still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend, even after five years. I love her with all my heart. What we are going through is basically crushing me. She up and quit her job which is making me worry about being able to pay anything. It seems like in the past maybe two months she has become a completely different person. She has tried alcohol which I don't approve of because I was raised that alcohol is not the wisest choice at all. She thinks I hate her friends because I don't approve of some of the choices they have made. I can't really talk to her because it always seems to end up being a yelling match. I have no clue what to do anymore I have pretty much given everything I can I don't know what else I can do. When this first started I recommended marriage counseling, but she wasn't willing to do it. I will take all the advice I can. I would love to rekindle the romance.