I wonder at times if I’m crazy and expect more then I should. I don’t scream or call names that just isn’t me. I’m not going to ask for him to do things around the house no one tells me that dishes need to be done. If my job was to be a stay at home parent I get it but I’m not. I refuse to be a nag. When we discuss at times about things that need to get done around the house he says he doesn’t see the things that need to be attended too. That more then anything is frustrating because he is an intelligent person so I feel it is a choice to not see. Or pay attention to detail.