Which is what she wants hear and what she wants to do. It is manipulation and deception by omissioninstead of divorcing him, how about not cheating again, and taking the knowledge of this affair to your grave?
the divorce will devastate him. as will finding out you screwed another man. how about learning from that mistake, and improving yourself?
I suspect she feels that this time will be once too many for him.So, I wonder if this means that she was okay with her cheating the first two times. And if that's the case, then what's so special about this time that's making her feel regret? Is there a possibility of exposure?
I do agree with the second part. Then again, My child would have been 21 today. Killed by an abortion I could not stop. Only later to find out ex did it because she didn't even know if baby would have been the same race as me. I'm not too objective to cheaters today, save to say there is a huge amount of rage, even 21 years later.You are just trash. Worst then that. You are the single worst thing in his life.
Where is the integrity in choking her? Please.I don't feel sorry for you at all. You betrayed the man you married, twice. Shallow doesn't even begin to describe your personality. The only advice you get from me is to divorce the man and let him go so he can find a REAL woman - one who is faithful and has some integrity. You seriously lack in everything that is good and healthy to a marriage.
False equivalency. You don't know your heart when it blows up... I'd rather get choked and punched!Where is the integrity in choking her? Please.
Any moral high ground he had was lost when he put his hands on her.
They are both at fault here for violating the boundaries of their vows. Only one of them could go to jail for his actions
He needs to know the truth. You can't float above the storms you don't know about.I hope you divorce him — for his sake and yours.
I hope you keep the third betrayal to yourself. He doesn’t need more trauma to understand that this is a failed marriage.
I hope you find a good therapist to help you grow as a person.
I hope you learn how to take real responsibility for your actions while not minimizing the reprehensible, violent actions of others. Two truths can exist at the same time: you were wrong to cheat. He was wrong to react with violence.
Spend more time thinking about how you can be a better person - in general. Less time focused on getting your thrills from other people.
Damb that’s harsh. So sorry to hear thatI do agree with the second part. Then again, My child would have been 21 today. Killed by an abortion I could not stop. Only later to find out ex did it because she didn't even know if baby would have been the same race as me. I'm not too objective to cheaters today, save to say there is a huge amount of rage, even 21 years later.
For all I know, she could have killed my (now 21yo) child.
You want to do what is right.I want to do what’s right. I don’t want to give up on my marriage so easily.
Trash logic emits from trash thinking contained in trash. Have fun, your husband made the biggest mistake in his life ever even giving you the time of day.I had a real mental check in today with myself and I think you’re 100% right. I think I need to just divorce him.
We’ve both done wrong in this relationship. I don’t think we were ready for any of this. I’m just sorry it took me so long to see that.