Typical millennial snowflake deflection. It must be incredibly empowering to be a young woman who grew up in a media-dominated society where every day you are told that because you were born with a vagina that you are automatically entitled to do what ever you want and steamroll whoever you want in order to get what you want as long as it is what you want.You don’t know my person nor who I am… you give blind guidance from only what is given. Why should I take anyone’s advice here? I don’t think any of you care about me- how could you? You know nothing about me at all. Nor my husband for that matter. Neither of us. I struggle to take any advice now that I’ve reflected on that.. you won’t be losing your marriage, my husband and I will. You won’t be feeling the downward spiral of depression and mental anguish that he will feel, he will. You see it from your phone or computer screen and a scroll on. It’s just such a strange thing… this entire website.