I don’t know how it happened but I have been losing the passion in my relationship. We have been married for 10 years, 3 lovely children’s, and a healthy relationship. When I was getting closer to my 10 year mark, I was so excited about it, no one in my family circle last for that long before, I think is a great accomplishment. Now, for a reason that I can’t understand, I found that sometimes I don’t feel completely happy with my relationship. Can’t say that is my wife’s fault, she has done everything possible to make me happy and take care of the kids like a good mother. Sex is ok, I know she has gain a couple of extra pounds through the years and it makes it a little difficult to make some tricks on bed but still find a way to work it. Between the kids school, the work, the daily duties at home I found myself in a routine. I went to a trip recently and during the trip I was think about my relationship and how I’m starting to lose the interest. I haven’t been unfaithful to her, I haven’t contact any girls form the past (recently), I do watched porn once in a while to get me a little motivated before have intimacy with her when I'm at home, but this is something that she doesn't like at all. I know deeply I love her and if we end up divorcing it will hurt incredibly for all of us in the home. I don’t want to leave her but at the same time I don’t know why I’m losing the passion that once I had.