Surprising no women chimed in to give you a clue about their experiences. I would have thought the womens lounge on here might offer some experiences. Or Cosmopolitan magazine. Or the web. If you had some good female friends irl, they might share, (or embellish), though perhaps think it odd that you didn't know.I think maybes I’m just overthinking everything and maybe I should step away from TAM. I do appreciate everyone’s input because it has given me some things to consider, but maybe Rus isn’t too far off the mark in some respects. We’ve been together this long so maybe there isn’t really some sort of radical change that needs to happen. I don’t really know. I am still curious to know what sec is like for people who actually enjoy it. Unless there is a therapist who can some how help me to understand I’ll probably never know.
I do know that plenty of women think BOB is far superior to anything most men can accomplish with their penis. Dance with the one whose moves you like.
But hearing from someone who enjoys something has nothing to do with your own experience. I mean people have raved to me about how wonderful caviar is. It just turns my stomach even thinking about it. So should I find a therapist to somehow convince me I must crave caviar and help me understand how wonderful it is? Or think I am somehow broken because cant stand it?
It is possible your body has different nerve arrangement below the waist. Or maybe the region of the brain associated with sexual pleasure is wired differently. What difference does it make? Find the things in this life that make you happy, make you smile. Maybe focus on helping some of the helpless with their problems and not being DTF with a man will decrease in importance.
Let me tell you one thing, as a mid-70s male. This life is over sooner than you can imagine. And we are all one bad report away from some REAL unhappiness. Make hay while the sun shines.