Needs your guidance on this. I very recently discovered my H's EA betrayl. I am so confused as I seem to be constantly gravitating to him sexually. I am wanting to please him (and of course I am rewarded as well.) I struggle with giving my H this emotional connection and sexually pleasing him and I keep questioning myself afterwards. I finally goggled it and sure enough there is a term for this behavior called "hysterical bonding". Why would I want to do this with him after being lied and betrayed to? Have any of you experienced similar feelings? I am afraid of doing more harm down the road in attempting to heal, but my desires are insatiable. Why should I continue to give him the best of me? I question if he sees this as rewarding his awful behavior and actions. Of course I ask him and he says no, it feels so good to be close and work on rebuilding us. ( I never expected a different answer. He is a man after all) I will bring this up at MC, but that is not until Tuesday, so I wanted your input on this. Thanks in advance.