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My husband has some pretty undesirable friends and out of them there are only 3 or 4 I'm of them I'm comfortable having around my children, he understands and generally respects that. Most of his pals are older bachelors that drink heavily and smoke lots of pot. One of them I've actually managed to get along with is becoming a concern. He became a concern at my 2 year old's birthday; he showed up with a giant bottle of cheap wine and was beyond fashionably late, he and his girlfriend were clearly under the influence of something. They didn't eat any of the food we had prepared but gladly took a huge baggy full of leftovers. I felt this was sorta rude but let it go and didn't say anything and I wonder who the hell brings a bottle of wine to a 2 year old's birthday? The same guy shows up today at the house looking like hell and ask for my husband. I tell him he's at work and ask him whats going on. He tells me his girlfriend is stuck in town and he needs help. He was obviously upset so I asked him if he wanted to come in, his speech was garbled and I could hardly understand him. He wouldn't come in. I told him I would tell my husband to call him when he gets home and if it was anything I could help out with I'll be happy to once the kids wake up. He says he needs some help and just takes off. It was really weird so now I'm left wondering if my husbands buddy needs some money or what the hell was going on. It stresses me out to see stuff like this happening when I would normally be at work (I return in 2 weeks after the birth of our second child).
The dilemma I have is should I bring my concerns up with my husband that his friend seems to be becoming someone I don't want around my kids. I believe his buddy might be messing with some hard drugs. After all my husband and I have been getting along for a few days quite well and I would hate for this to become something that will make us fight again because I don't feel most of his friends are people I want around my kids. Am I overreacting if I say something about his friends strange behavior?
The dilemma I have is should I bring my concerns up with my husband that his friend seems to be becoming someone I don't want around my kids. I believe his buddy might be messing with some hard drugs. After all my husband and I have been getting along for a few days quite well and I would hate for this to become something that will make us fight again because I don't feel most of his friends are people I want around my kids. Am I overreacting if I say something about his friends strange behavior?