M and I have been married for over 22 years and for the most part, it has been a happy union. He has always in the past leaned toward embellishing the truth or had a habit of telling "white" lies. In the past few years, the deceit is getting worse. In fact he will just come out with a bold faced lie even without me having to ask any questions. These lies are ruining the trust I have for him and destroying our relationship. At one time, I would just shrug it off and make excuses for him even though I knew he was lying. Now I find myself spying on him because no matter what he says to me, I simply cannot believe him. He is now feeling the mistrust I have because I now question him and of course in me doing so, I will take him to task on things and as expected the story changes. One day I was reviewing my investments and noticed funds were missing in a number of areas. When I brought it to his attention, he denied everything so I told him then I would have to contact the bank because my investments had obviously been compromised. He immediately stopped denying that he had dipped into my money. What he did with the money, I have no idea but to ensure it never happened again, I had to change my password. I am tired of the lies, the deceit and sneaking around. I do not suspect he is unfaithful but I am on the verge of packing this marriage in. Any advice would be greatly appreciated so I know which direction to go but I feel something needs to be done now before I reach the point of no return.